Wednesday, December 27, 2006

Pain and Joy


Walking along the walk on Waikiki beach there are so many homeless people. Not the homeless teenagers and young adults that I saw in New Orleans and Portland but middle-aged and elderly people. On my first visit to Honolulu, I drove to the Western part of the island for a hike that winds its way over ocean blowholes, and bird breeding grounds. On my way, I passed a tent city on the beach. I was later informed that it was a community of homeless folks, many of whom are struggling with crystal meth addiction. The homeless population here is pretty overwhelming in Oahu.

A tidbit from a NYT article on the situation: Nobody knows exactly how many people are living on the beach. Kaulana Park, the state’s point man for the homeless, estimated that more than 1,000 people lived on the Waianae Coast beaches, but he cautioned that any count was good only on the day it was taken. And that estimate does not account for the hidden homeless: people who sleep on a relative’s sofa, or in their cars, or camp in areas not as visible as the public beaches.
Many living on the beach have jobs, mostly in the service and construction sectors. They include families with children, who attend public schools by day and sleep in tents on the beach at night.
Venise Lewis, 35, who lives near Ms. Greenwood at Maili Beach Park with her husband and two of their four children, said her daughters, ages 8 and 10, must finish their homework in the afternoon because there was no lighting at the beach after sunset.



When I share this with people, I have found a common response. "Well, if you have to be homeless, Hawaii is probably the best place." And though I thought the same thing, I quickly chastized myself because pain follows people where ever they are as does joy. Sure, the climate beats New York City, but one has to wonder how so many people get to an island that is 5 hours away by plane or if there is a systemic problem that makes homelessness so prevalent. After meeting a publich health department worker, Betty, she explained that part of it is the cost of living and people deciding to stay who came with little money; however, there seems to be the thought that social workers from CA in the 90s would strongly suggest that folks save or use the SS check to buy a one way ticket to HI. We will see what the new governor will do about this who happens to be Jewish and republican (and rumored to be family but that is often a rumor that gets labeled onto single powerful women).

Yesterday on the sidewalk by the beach was a Japanese (I think) woman who was in a wheelchair and her arm was in a sling. Etched on her face was an architypal expression of pain. It made me think that we can't escape whatever is happening in our lives regardless of the destination. Later, I saw her with her grown daughter and her two young grandchildren with such a joyful smile. Again, I thought how relationships, connections are the things that can reach down beyond the pain and bring us to a different place.

I am off to do some hiking on the island of Kauai and to bring in the New Year there. It will definitely be less hectic than Waikiki.

Happy New Year! May you find the connections and the deepening of relationships in 2007!


5 Weeks Out


Things have slowed down a bit and the sabbatical has become more of a concrete reality than an idea. I chose to enter my sabbatical with a bit of a whirlwind to ease the transition. I cooked Thanksgiving dinner with my Mom and had a houseful of guests, went to my Dad's cabin in Blue Ridge, GA for the weekend and then turned around and left for Honolulu. Honolulu followed by a trip to LA to a conference in NYC to a Bat Mitzvah in Cleveland. This was all in the span of 3 and a half weeks.


While I will get to the exciting parts of the journey thus far, I have to remark that what has been surprising is the luxury of the mundane. While keeping myself busy was a good strategy to start, by Cleveland, I thought what was I doing? It made it easier to slow down. Yesterday was hard, a bit of a lonely day. I have spent a great deal of time alone--which is wonderful, but sometimes the solitude can be heavy.
But as for the mundane, I have reacquainted myself with some old things. So far, I have cooked more meals than I have in almost the past 3 years combined. I have to remind myself that I can leisurely wade through the market, exploring the cheeses, testing the produce and allowing people to go ahead of me. Washing dishes by hand can be a meditation of its own. Though I have learned that Madge was wrong, you don't want to soak your hands in Palmolive. And the best part of it is that for more nights than I can remember having, I have slept at least 7 hours. Rediscovering sleep has been a treasure greater than Captain Jack Sparrow's black pearl.
I am reading a wonderful book by Tich Nacht Han called True Love. It is a short guide to connecting the practice of awareness with the spiritual path of loving. It is practical and his frank, terse writing is fresh and often very sweet. He seems very unencumbered, which is refreshing.
I have been spending some time preparing my next journey: Denver. The blizzard hasn't done much for my excitement heading there, but the opportunity to collaborate with friends on some writing ventures is. I am hoping the cold is an incentive for staying indoors and writing for a good long while. One awesome discovery is that a good friend and colleague is only 45 minutes away so he and I are going to try to do some chevruta (partnered) study together. I may convince him to be my ski instructor as well--if not him then his wife.
I will post more regularly now and will begin by catching people up on what I have done and who I have seen especially:
*Bea and Dave and their new(ish) daughter Elana *the Russo/Claman clan and the bat mitzvah *the Human Rights Conference * Hanukkah in Honolulu and the Reform Temple
I will write more soon!
Joshua